Growing up, the year 2025 almost seemed made up—it felt so far away. As a child, I could only dream of what high school would be like, and I couldn’t wait to grow up. Now that I’m here, I never want to go back. Unlike many others, I’m glad I’ve grown up, and I’m excited to see what the future holds.Every year I’ve been in school, I’ve felt like a completely different person. My high school experience was not how I envisioned it, yet I truly believe it happened for a reason. I might not have understood at the time, but I wouldn’t be where I am today without it. Everything that’s happened has helped me reflect, grow and become a better version of myself.My freshman-year self wouldn’t even recognize who I am today. I don’t mean just in the way I look; I’ve grown mentally and emotionally. I no longer feel the need to be in unnecessary drama to feel seen. I’m no longer friends with the girl I once pictured as my maid-of-honor. I have a boyfriend I have planned a future with. These are all things I never really pictured happening but here we are. I have changed, and I’m proud of it.Throughout high school, I had no idea what I wanted to do with my life. I had always considered being a teacher, but the opinions of others often held me back. “They don’t make much money.” “It’s just a glorified babysitter job.” “Do you really want to spend your days with other people’s kids?” I’ve heard it all. Eventually, I stopped listening to the voices around me. Most of these people won’t even be part of my life in five years, so why should I care about their opinions? Now, I’m planning to study education at Winona State University.High school has the stereotype of being miserable but it doesn’t have to be. Having the right people around you can make all the difference. You do not need people in your life that are not constantly rooting for you, no matter how close you think you are. Find a couple true friends and stick with them. Unfortunately, it took me until senior year to come to this realization.